can i know if i couldnt make this project within a month is it easy to make the the other one with the OLED SCREEN???
It's all depending on how dedicated & talented you are in electronics/embedded. Say a talented guy can make something within a week. It might take ages for an average person to do the same thing. Experience also matters in similar projects. For example, if you have handled microcontrollers in your life, it is easy for you do design something with them. If you haven't done such Research & Development based work ever in your life, it will take ages for you to work it out. However it is worth since you can work out the next project faster with that expereince.
i could find a elecronic instructor for that i wanna know is he should be an IC PROGRAMMER or a DIAGRAM DESIGNER
That of cause need to be decided by you. If you are going to put electronics which needs firmware programming, yes, you need to find a person with firmware programming capabilities. If you want that person to design the circuit for you, so he should be able to do that as well. If you are going to use non-programmable electronics then you don't need a firmware programmer. You just need a circuit designer.
An electronics/embedded engineer can do both without any problem. Also, there are some talented technicians who are capable of doing those as well.
also i need to know how should i explain him about the project in geeky way

i cant just say him, im doing a project its a night vision goggle i need a circuit blah blah right! thats why.....
I understand. But I'm in a doubt on your contribution to the project. Are you an electronic/technology enthusiast? I felt that you are just trying to get the job done by someone else and get marks under your name? I'm sorry this is not going to work with us. We only support technology enthusiasts.
As said before we have no time to waste. But we help technology enthusiasts by giving them guidance on projects decided by them. For example, if someone needs to drive a motor, we can give him guidance on how to do that.
and it would be more easier if you can send me the part list which i need to make the diagram

My friend, you can understand what I'm telling you. There are many ways to design a circuit. If you take two electronic engineers, they might design the circuits completely in a different way. One might like microcontrollers whereas the other likes Digital Signal Processors. Though the final outcome is same, the circuits can be completely different. Besides, how to predict a list of parts on a project which you haven't even decided yet.
If you don't know what you are making and you need someone else to work it out for you, we can't help you any further. If myself for example do all the designing, etc... then I'll put that item under my name. Not yours

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I'm sure you understand what I'm saying.
There are millions of project ideas in the world and no one has time to discuss everything. So Rasanja, first thing is decide on the project. Then we can discuss with an aim.